Me

I am a successful professional engineer.

I am no fool.

I am a Christian, a reformed Protestant. I have come through skepticism and doubt and pain to believe in God and His grace. I am a fundamentalist, but not a literalist.

I grew up in a strict Catholic family in a small town in the Rockies.

I am a lesbian.

I knew from an early age. I did not act on it. I fought it by having sex with men. In my early 20s, I became so disgusted with myself that I became celibate.

In my early 30s, with the aid of a compassionate minister, I reconciled to my self. But I stayed in the closet and did not act on my orientation.

In August 2014, I met my Love. She is the only woman I have ever dated. She is the only woman I have ever kissed.

In March 2015, I moved to New York City.

In May, 2015, my Love proposed marriage and I accepted. We married in August, 2016, at her family’s ranch.

I believe that my love of a woman is no sin.

I believe in the traditional values of family, straight or gay.